Dog-dog reactivity is a very common behaviour difficulty dog professionals are contacted for help about. We often see it as a problem if our dog doesn’t get on with every dog they see – but did you know this is ENTIRELY NORMAL?
The problem dogs have is that we guardians expect our dogs to do what we do not: accept and embrace everybody we come across in a friendly and unconditional manner. If we are honest with ourselves, we cannot hold ourselves to that standard of perfection – yet we so adamantly hold our dogs to it!
Yes, dogs are social beings but typically this means they like to have friendships with other dogs well matched for their play style and activity choices. This does not automatically mean they like to be thrown into a dog park with 30 other dogs all clumsily communicating to each other in a heightened state of excitement. If you have a dog that can enjoy situations involving a lot of stranger dogs then YOU are in the minority! Most people find their dogs, especially once matured past puppyhood, are more picky and reserved.
Furthermore, “reactive” is a very vague unhelpful label in that a “reactive” dog may be struggling with a variety of things. Their behaviours may look the same: growling, barking, lunging, snapping and so on but the underlying cause of these behaviours can differ.
Perhaps they are easily aroused and get over stimulated at the sight of other dogs because they just want to go say hello and play. Dogs can really struggle with their on-lead behaviour as a result of this overstimulation.
Perhaps they are very immature in social skills due to a “not good enough” socialisation period
Perhaps they have had a traumatic experience with a number of dogs, or just one, and are now highly anxious about interacting with others
Perhaps they struggle to read certain dog breeds and that makes them feel defensive; for example, brachycephalic dogs or those covered with an abundance of curly fluff.
Perhaps they are mature now and tolerating rude/bolshy young dogs is no longer possible for them.
Perhaps they are struggling with pain in their hips/back/neck and are very sensitive to other beings in their personal space for fear an interaction may make the pain worse.
And more…!
There can be a hundred and one different reasons why your unique dog before you is showing reactive behaviours at the sight of/whilst in interaction with another dog. This is why there is no blanket answer for dog reactivity and no quick fix. How it can be remedied depends on what is the underlying motivation for the reactivity – in short – is it to get the trigger to go away? Or is it to get closer to the stimuli? What if I also add that it is rare for the dog to be feeling ONE emotion! I often see dogs who come across as struggling with frustration because they just want to go over to that dog as soon as possible to play, but are actually highly anxious in their interactions with other dogs as well, further compounding their initial reactivity. Dogs are complex beings just as we are, and we need to appreciate this when dealing with their reactivity.
Typically, every dog I see for “reactivity” training and behaviour modification I recommend goes on a calming supplement such as Hedgerow Hounds Tranquil Blend. Alongside looking at the dog’s diet, their daily activities, the quality of their walks outside of the home and more, the calming supplement helps to put the dog in the best position to learn that the world doesn’t have to be as scary or frustrating (or both!) as they currently believe it to be.
It is highly important to get the right behaviour help though for your dog as some interventions can be truly harmful. If your chosen professional is recommending you “correct” the dog through various methods such as a flick of the wrist with a slip lead, shaking a can of pennies at them, or other aversive tools such as vibration collars, choke chains, prong collars and even shock collars, please be aware there is significant fallout of relying on these corrective methods to alleviate your dogs’ problem behaviour. In the same way children in schools are not punished for getting things wrong, dogs are emotional beings who also can be negatively affected by punishment-based interventions.
Studies have shown that positive based training is more effective and does not cause any unwanted fallouts like corrective training does (1)(2)(3)(4). If you are reading this then you are concerned about your dogs’ emotional welfare and that is the concern of all good behaviour professionals as well. The important part of a reactive dog’s journey isn’t their behaviour, it’s their emotional world! Emotions cannot be corrected; only recognised, understood, and soothed.
Most importantly, oftentimes living with a reactive dog involves compromise. It involves respecting their genuine likes/dislikes with regards to other dogs (some dogs genuinely don’t want to play, or are too little to want to be around large breeds and so on), so they can learn to be less over-reactive on exposure to dogs in general. We often place high expectations on our dogs and when these can’t be fulfilled we blame the dog, when really we need to ask ourselves “is this expectation fair?”
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(2) Blackwell, E.J., Bolster, C., Richards, G. et al. The use of electronic collars for training domestic dogs: estimated prevalence, reasons and risk factors for use, and owner perceived success as compared to other training methods. BMC Vet Res 8, 93 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1186/1746-6148-8-93
(3) Ziv, Gal. (2017). The Effects of Using Aversive Training Methods in Dogs – A Review. Journal of Veterinary Behavior: Clinical Applications and Research. 19. 10.1016/j.jveb.2017.02.004.#
(4) Cooper JJ, Cracknell N, Hardiman J, Wright H, Mills D (2014) The Welfare Consequences and Efficacy of Training Pet Dogs with Remote Electronic Training Collars in Comparison to Reward Based Training. PLoS ONE 9(9): e102722. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0102722
Jen Leslie is a canine behaviour specialist based in Buckinghamshire. Originally completing a psychology degree to work with people, she moved across to dealing with the emotional worlds of dogs instead following a period of volunteering at a dog rescue with the dogs hard to rehome due to behaviour difficulties.
Jen has four dogs of her own, ranging from her 3kg chorkies to her 30kg Doberman/shepherd cross. She advocates primarily for little dogs and their misunderstood experience in this big world.
You can read more from Jen at her website www.calvertcanines.com and on her facebook page www.facebook.com/CalvertCanines